Jessica Wilde Teaches Us How To Love and Embrace The Human Experience With Her Sophmore Album

18th September 2024

By Esi Mongo

The multifaceted talent that is Jessica Wilde released her highly anticipated soul-exploring audio journal, 'Teach Me How To Love' this summer. The singer, songwriter, rapper, actor and producer Brixton-Made Goddess goes beyond wearing her heart on her sleeve as she tells it all on her sophomore album. Evoking raw, firsthand emotions for all of us to hear, Wilde's four-year spiritual sobriety journey brings forth a level of honesty, illustrating the amount of shadow work orchestrated throughout her time of healing. Including phenomenal features from the likes of Afronaurt Zu, Josh Barry, Zoe Kyrpi, James Newman and MUTI MUSA 'Teach Me How To Love' is an ode to radical self-love in all its stages: surrendering, shedding, and embracing your present self and all the previous versions of you.

My conversation with Jessica Wilde was reflective, revealing versions of myself that can still be empowered in all life's stages. Meeting at The Ritzy in Brixton, while I was flustered from the Friday rush hour commute, Jessica Wilde's aura was laid back compared to the excited buzz within the bar. The Brixton area was vibrant despite the thunder threatening to take away Emancipation Day's joy. As seasoned chatter and vibrant rhythms thickened the London air, a similar energy could be detected inside The Ritzy. Golden, wild locks framed a charming smile; Ms Wilde's presence disclosed she was home and ready to tell her story.

Born into a family dedicated to the performing arts (actor parents, a jazz singer mother, and a Jungle MC brother), Wilde's self-expression was guaranteed to be explored within music. With a wide range of interests in R&B, Soul, Indie Rock, Hip Hop, Jungle, and hints of Dub, Jessica Wilde's music holds a rich foundation of diverse influences. Her chameleonic ability to shift and blend between genres exemplifies her versatility, keeping her sound fresh and innovative.

Cementing herself within the Indie Soul soundscape, Wilde was still reeling on a high after her Jessica Wilde Album Experience with partners of Global Soul and PXSSY PWR. "It was the best show I ever done," she self-praised gleefully. "Charlene was hosting," Charlene, Wilde's comical alter ego that often makes appearances during PXSSY PWR's showcases.

"This album is a very collaborative album. I've got a few features on it featuring artists that I love. I had them come through for the night: I had Josh Barry, who did his own set; I had MUTI MUSA, an amazing guy. Very spiritual. He's a rapper and an activist."

"Zoe Kypri, Afronaut Zu, they all came through. There was a seven-piece band. I had congas, a sax, and some dancers to come to perform 'Freak Out'," she laughed.

"The night sold out and... It was an electric energy." 

'Teach Me How To Love' explores Jessica Wilde's spiritual growth and delves into radical self-love. Performing the project for the first time during her Glastonbury set, the project intertwines the essence of The Spirit and The Soul to reflect on the human experience and address important life questions about love, vulnerability, and self. Through raw emotion and exceptional productions, 'Teach Me How To Love' presents an expressive soundscape that captures life's complexities and non-linear nature. "I always envisioned [this] to be a collaborative album. I had key people to get on this," Wilde shared. 

"Like Zoe, we have a soul connection. We're close friends now. We've already done a session together when we first met. When we got together for this one, it just flowed so naturally. It wasn't forced. It just flowed. And it was relevant to both of us. " 

The pair brought 'Feathers' to life, a resonant track that serves as an ode to self-realisation and coming to terms with one's potential. Infused with the core of spoken word art, 'Feathers' is sleek in its powerful delivery. Wide and Kypri ooze confidence of introspection as they assert their presence while the strings create a compelling undertow.

"She's also been on a sober journey. So we met when we were both on this journey," Wilde revealed. 

"Josh Barry: The first session we were meant to do, he couldn't make it at the last minute, and then I gave up on that. I was walking through the park one day,  and I was like, 'Oh, let me just call Josh up.' He was like, 'No, Jess, I want it. I want to do it. And then, finally, we got in, and 'Love Like This' came together." Barry and Wilde's chemistry is sultry, laced with a ruby-red intensity. The use of the bass radiates a seductive, warm ambience which slides throughout the track. It's sexy and taunting. Lyrics such as "I Surrender My Soul To You" encapsulate how intoxicating love can be. Especially when it feels far too sweet. 

"That one was really fun [to write]. I always used to write songs about toxic relationships, breakups, people were treating me like shit," she laughed. "And I was like,' No, I want to write a fucking love song'. Josh Barry was the perfect person [to do it with]."

The self-titled track, off the rip, is rich, ancestral, and rooted. 'Teach Me How To Love' is a standout. "He's just amazing," Jessica Wilde praised her collaborator, Afronaut Zu. "I wanted to work with him for years. I saw him singing with Rudimental and Steam Down. Yeah, he just always blows me away." 

"He came around mine during lockdown, and we ended up writing 'Teach Me How To Love' in my spare room. And then it just progressed and progressed." 

Throughout this project, listeners are treated to various genres as Wilde effortlessly transitions between sounds, including R&B, Soul, Hip Hop, and hints of Jungle and Dub. The use of drums creates a seamless flow, providing an earthy texture that serves as the ongoing heartbeat of the album. "I've always had quite a deep connection to drums through my healing journey," Wilde revealed. "I started going to a lot of ceremonies. I started going to a lot of women's ceremonies and cacao ceremonies. I was going to more festivals that were more healing-oriented, and a lot of them were connected to indigenous traditions."  

"As I got more drawn to that music, I was still connected to Soul, R&B and Hip Hop. Naturally, I was drawn to the percussion of the congas whenever I was producing. For me, [the drums] are so grounding and earthy. Ancestral. It is what resonates with my soul. I had to have it in there."

The Jessica Wilde we encounter today radiates an inner harmony. She embodies a deep connection to the Divine Feminine, possessing quiet confidence. Her transformative journey towards sobriety ignited during her quest within the wilderness of Peru and the Amazon jungle. "When I went to Peru, I just didn't drink at all, and that wasn't like me, but I just didn't have the urge. I didn't want to," she confessed. "I ended up doing Ayahuasca in the Amazon Jungle. I went with this guy called Paul Rosalie. If you look him up, he's amazing. He's like Tarzan. He lives in the Peruvian Amazon with the indigenous people. He runs these [retreats], and the money goes towards the community he lives with and protecting the Amazon Rainforest."

"We did a lot of crazy shit. He took us out in a swamp to rescue an anaconda  snake. The second time he was doing it, I told him, 'I'll sit this one out,'" she laughed. "One of the songs from the album, 'Human,' [was inspired by that trip]. 'I'm just a soul trying to be human. 'That was where that kind of birthed. That was really the start of the album."

Wilde self-defined what the human experience meant to her: "I think we're all souls trying to be human. We're put down here, trying to fucking navigate our way through this crazy world in this human body, having this human experience."

"The key is to reconnect with that soul within us [to] have a more fuller experience down here."

Collaboration isn't a foreign concept to Wilde. Founder of PXSSY PWR, Wilde and her alter-ego Charlene felt the need to create a showcase to support female artists during the 2020 COVID lockdown. The Hootananny Brixton's residency has become a significant platform for underground female, non-binary, and queer artists, with sold-out shows featuring Etta Bond, IYAMAH, Zoe Kypri, and Tamaraebi, to name a few. "I love giving people a platform, listening to other people's stories. It's inspiring. And I've noticed many people drawn to PxSSY PWR are also quite spiritual. As it gives people a platform, it also gives me a platform."

"[For people coming to PXSSY PWR] I want it not to be just your average gig, but like an experience, you know? I want you to feel inspired. When Charlene comes on, you're like, 'Yeah, I'm gonna fucking get into my pussy power!' and you're gonna laugh your fucking tits off!"

Reflecting on Jessica Wilde's voyage through conversation, she has had quite a journey. 

From first being signed in LA after following her mother on her American jazz tour to flourishing through sobriety to the birthing and awakening of 'Teach Me How To Love' (after reminding her there is great power in the tongue), Wilde revealed an alignment that makes the best sense when asked about her aspirations.

"I would love to collaborate with Jerome Thomas. I love Jerome. There's also a producer named Pitch 92, who also produced Jerome's album. I really want to work with him. Ghetts. Inflo. SAULT. Little Simz. Absolutely. Get me on a fucking track! Greentea Peng. There's a couple of people.

Jessica Wilde is a lion-mained fireball who has mastered using her community and healing to create art, encouraging the evolution of the highest being. Queen of her community, she is proof that the era of the Independent Artist will always win with a team and blossoming people in their corner.


Stream 'Teach Me How To Love' on all streaming platforms. Or even better, buy it here.